Please go watch Sex Explained on Netflix. Not only is it a great resource for the basic sex education that is sorely lacking in the U.S., but some of ya’ll need to take a deep breath and remember the difference between fantasy vs reality. This purity culture thing that we’re going through right now is directly harmful to responsible, healthy sexual expression.
BTW this woman, Lisa Diamond, is a noted psychologist and has been pushing for greater understanding of womens sexuality as a whole.
This can also be applied to non sexual scenarios and I see arguments about this a lot in fandom, especially with fanfic. Just because you write something disturbing doesn’t mean you condone the action and some of you need to learn that concept as a whole, whether it be violent topics, taboo topics, etc.
Also you need to watch this show if you’ve ever had to deal with American-school-system sex ed because they did y’all dirty and you need to learn the truth
