Anonymous asked:
hi i realized it was advice hour so i'm a transmasc enby and like, i kina have a thing for a friend of mine and she returns the feelings but like she's a lesbian, and i am Not Female, but like, I wouldnt feel uncomfortable because it's her i guess? i need advice.
I think it’s one of those situations that transcends the knowledge I have of identities? I mean, if you like someone, and that someone likes you back, what do labels matter in that situation, I guess? I mean, labels matter for certain things, I get that. But in this specific situation, if a person has feelings for another person, then that’s what’s important in that situation. Identities aside, if you like them, and they like you, that’s what matters most
