So heard you were collecting roommate things, but like housing contracts are so fucking weird. And I'm currently helping my friends through a couple situations, but there's a clause that was like we can cancel housing if you attempt to create the appearance that you pose a threat to your roommate. And its shitty when roommates are like forced to move out because people are assholes, but when all of your roommates move out because you broke that rule, hey maybe like the issue is you. And it is because this roommate doesn't like the answer no.

I want to remind everyone here that you should be able to say no in a relationship whether it be platonic, romantic and sexual. If your partner/friend does not respect your no it is a sign that they won’t treat you well. If you cannot say no without fear of consequences, that is a red flag. If you physically cannot say no, your partner/friend does not know when and where the boundaries are and will upset you on accident. In my relationships, I find it incredibly important that I know my friends can say no and that they know there will be no repercussions for saying no.

**IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP NO IS A VALID AND RESPECTED ANSWER**