Anonymous asked:
hi im neurodivergent af (adhd with a little drop of 'tism) and i literally feel like i missed the memo on how to make friends. not even just as an adult but as a kid too. i do have friends now and it is possible to improve that skill set but i can very easily envision an alternate version of my life where i am completely isolated with no idea how to change it. i think friends are good and i think you can get some but it may be a lot of trial and error. anyway i gotta go take my dumb cat to the vet but happy tuesday
Thing is I’ve never had a problem making friends per se, but I never had a desire to make friends. I was an only child until I was 6 and even then I only had step siblings and that early isolation I think just stunted my desire for friends. Like I have family and a boyfriend and that’s it.
