doctors be like "we have no idea what causes this extremely mysterious illness" and the illness is something that affects 1 in 8 women
They still don’t know what causes morning sickness in pregnancy
Or know shit about ANYTHING that goes on in a vagina. Vaginismus? Endometriosis? Big fucking mystery apparently
So for some advice for younger people (not that I’m ancient but I’ve been around the block with medical staff) if you have a vagina, don’t listen to Shit a male dr tells you about it. Do not go to a male OBGYN because they will stab the shit out of your cervix because they just don’t know that shit HURTS. Some things really are a woman’s* job and that includes anything going on with a vagina because men Just Don’t Get It
Some women don't get it either, they're ancient in their field and they just cause pain like, nope, everyone forever has always gone through this, it's a right of passage.
It is not.
