Being open and honest with your parents is so fun we watched a video of parents asking if their children owned various taboo items and my mom and I went through the list together and it was like “I know my daughter owns a bong.” “I know my daughter has had a one night stand without condoms” “I know my daughter smokes cigarettes” and it’s really fun to just be in a room where your parents are just people like you are and it’s so valuable to be able to do that
Which reminds me of the time my mom and I had to like, team up to convince my stepdad that squirt was like 98% piss and he looked so traumatized
This is literally me and my mom. We have taste tested flavored condoms, discussed in depth the value of flexibility for all types of couples, kinks we like, what taboo items we own because a bong is just anther way to use weed which we're okay with, safe toys are just objects. We've joked about the videos we've accidentally stumbled upon online, and they've heard about the stories I write.
And as a result, when something serious happens regarding this stuff, or we have a weird health concern with our bodies, theres no fear or hesitation to reach out for help and advice and guidance. There is no judgement, just how can we help.
Yes!!!! Like… there is no single person on this earth that will know you like your mama knows you. And it’s such a blessing to be able to talk to her just… human to human. Or girl to girl. It’s invaluable to have a person like that in your life
