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how old were you the first time you met an out trans person irl? (see below for clarification)

from birth! a parent or other constant presence in my life is trans (0-4)

as a child (5-12)

as a teen (13-19)

as a young adult (20-25)

as an adult (26+)

I have only ever gotten to meet trans people online :(

I still haven't met any out trans people :(

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*for the purposes of this poll, I'm talking about like specifically meeting someone who came out to you at some point about being trans

this does not include yourself if you are trans, in that case I'm talking meeting another trans person! cause sometimes we're isolated and don't meet other trans people until later on in our lives & those can be really meaningful experiences!

things that do not count: hearing/reading about trans people as a Topic or Issue, seeing trans people in television/movies/porn, seeing trans people post online, reading a book or article by a trans person, seeing someone you assume is trans, knowing of a trans person but never talking to them, etc.

there's a level of community and intimacy here I'm getting at-- the first time a trans person talked to you about transness and their experience or understanding of themself

I was a freshman in hs so like 13 had a trans classmate named claire she was a few years older than me and also like 6’5 so I was afraid of her mainly bc I’m only 5’2 and tall ppl are scary she was really nice tho and the school was pretty great to her at least the staff she got to use her preferred bathroom she got to play on the ladies sports teams it wasnt like a big deal she was just Claire

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#she was really nice tho #at least the staff